Your fear is frightening!

10 01 2020

The Bible is full of passages about fear!  “Even though I walk thru the valley of death, I will fear no evil.”  “The Holy One is my light and my salvation – whom shall I fear?”  “Do not fear for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”  “I sought God and my prayers were answered; I was delivered from all my fears.”   “God did not give us the spirit of fear, but of love and of power, and of sound mind.”

Fear is paralyzing!  It takes control of our lives and distorts everything we do: constricting our minds and closing our hearts.  It too often leads us to over-react to the situations that are before us, dragging us down the road of irrational beliefs and destructive behavior.  Sometimes it leads us to ‘flight’ – an attempt to get away from that which is tormenting us in order to avoid the pain that is believed to be in just around the corner.  But too many other times it leads us to ‘fight’ – confronting the perceived threat in ways that are often harsh, violent, and harmful to all.  Sadly, this ‘fight’ response has become way too common today, and for many of us, it is extremely frightening!

This is what was on display in Richmond last weekend.  People, almost all White and predominately male, marched through the streets of Virginia’s capital with guns and ammo strapped to their bodies as if they were going to war.  And why?  Because they are afraid.  They said so themselves.  They are afraid that the government is trying to take away their Second Amendment Rights.  They are afraid that Democrats are trying to restrict their access to weapons.  And they are afraid because crazy Liberal Socialists are trying to prevent them from being able to protect themselves from anyone who may want to hurt them or their families.   They believe that the Constitution has given them the right to own guns, and only over their cold dead bodies is anyone going to ever take them away.  Their fear has led them to illogical beliefs, and those illogical beliefs have led them to frightening behavior!

This is the real issue behind so much of the right-wing extremism that exists in our nation today.  Fear!  Far too many people spend far too much time living in fear.  They are afraid of Muslims, because those who believe differently than they believe challenge their worldview.  They are afraid of science, because education is regarded as the enemy of religion.  They are afraid of gay marriage, because that somehow threatens their heterosexual unions.  And yes, they are afraid of women, simply because that is the largest group of people over whom they like to superior.

But as distressing as these beliefs are in and of themselves, the behavior that results from these beliefs is even more frightening.  Walking around with an AK-47 strapped to one’s waist is not normal.  In fact it’s quite disturbing.  And no, none of us feel safer when we see people doing that.  “Nationalizing” the Christian faith, as so many White evangelicals are seeking to do today, makes that faith look nothing like the faith that Jesus proclaimed.  And this is not just heretical, it is downright wrong!  And refusing to vaccinate children, persecuting homosexuals, and failing to listen to or to honor the voices of women — is unjust, oppressive, and harmful to healthy functioning society.  It is behavior that should frighten everyone!

Which is why people need to continue to speak up!  Silence is indeed consent, and so someone needs to remind the extremists that when it comes to our Second Amendment rights, legislation is NOT confiscation?  No one wants to outlaw guns – we just want a few restrictions.  Someone needs to say that while we all have every right to believe whatever we want to believe, we do NOT have the right to mandate that everyone else believe the same way!  That’s what freedom of religion is all about.  And, someone needs to shout from the mountain tops that “science is NOT our enemy” and “our government is NOT full of evil people out to hurt us!”  Someone needs to say all of these things and more.

Why?  Because frightened people are frightening.  And frightened people of faith are the most frightening of all.  If anyone should know that we cannot allow fear to rule our lives, it should be people of faith.  But when we forget that, the very faith we claim, falsely, and disturbingly, gives too many fearful followers permission to behave in ways that are the most ungodly!

Fear IS real.  But it need not be given the power to rule our lives.  And when our fear becomes irrational, it leads to behavior that must be deemed unacceptable!  No one’s fear should ever lead us to believe that imprisoning people of color or passing a Muslim ban is an acceptable course of action.  No one’s fear should even lead us to believe that mandating prayer and reading the Bible in our public schools is going to make our schools safer.  Homosexuals do NOT need to stay in the closet and women do NOT need to stay in the kitchen simply because some people are afraid of the alternatives!  No one’s fear will every justify any of this; for indeed . . . the only thing we have to fear is fear itself!

Perhaps rather than allowing fear to govern our lives, we just need to better learn how to deal with it!  Perhaps we need to stop covering it up and suppressing it, and instead try to address it.  Because as real as fear may be, the actions to which it so often gives birth, if often far too frightening to inflict upon a society!

Fear is not from God, and there are all kinds of spiritual practices that can help us deal with it.  But if that doesn’t work, then please – realize that what is needed is not another gun.  What is needed is a therapist!   That will help not only you, but the rest of us . . . who are frightened by your fear!






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